Some of the most accomplished people I work with have built companies worth more than most people will see in a lifetime. And some of them tell me, quietly, that none of it has touched the ache they've carried since they were young.

One owner said to me, "I have five Lamborghinis and a private jet, and none of it means anything to me."

That isn't a character flaw. Psychology and Scripture both point to the same thing: a wound can drive a person to succeed, but success can't heal your wound.